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Couples rarely show up in my Phoenix office because of one fight. They come in after a slow drift, months or years of feeling unheard, and a pattern that tightens around every disagreement: the blame game. One person fires, the other defends, then counterattacks. The original problem gets lost, and both walk away more alone. If that rhythm sounds familiar, you are not broken, and your relationship is not a lost cause. It means your nervous systems and your habits have teame